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Help Me Understand My Child is a compelling and inspirational journey about a mother who advocated for twelve years for her son who has autism. This story takes you from the beginning of his diagnosis and highlights grades K-12 to a successful graduation from high school with a diploma. Ms. Bracy takes you behind the scenes on what it took to successfully raise her son and how she overcame many obstacles. She presents strategies on how to navigate this complex system of securing services. Additionally, the book includes her husband’s feelings about raising a son with autism and her daughter’s experiences with having a sibling with autism. As a bonus, you will find local, national and international resources in her book.

 

This book is a unique memoir. It introduces the reader to the world of special needs while providing a fascinating reading experience. This book is of immense value to families who have children or adults with autism, professionals and clinicians in the field and the community at large who have an interest in this population.

 

Autism is the fastest growing developmental disability in the U.S. 1:59 children are born with autism; 1:42 are boys. Parents living with a child with autism can be overwhelmed with feelings of acceptance. This book provides strategies on how to cope through this process and how to navigate the complex system of securing services for individuals with special needs.

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About the Author

Florence Bracy has a passion for supporting the “voiceless children”. She has been advocating for the last nineteen years for her son Brad who is twenty-seven years old with autism and other families with children who have special needs. Her unyielding commitment to this cause for all children with “no voice” has led to those being heard.

 

Ms. Bracy has led many workshops for parents and professionals on navigating the world of special needs; working with teachers, connecting with community organizations and teaching about the IEP process. She has presented at both education and community organizations. Nationally, Ms. Bracy has presented to the US Congress House Ways and Means Committee on behalf of business education for youth.

 

Ms. Bracy facilitates an autism support group for families and caregivers of people with autism in the Los Angeles area.

 

She worked for thirty years in the corporate and nonprofit arenas in marketing, sales, grant writing and program management.

 

Her education includes studying at Pacific University in Forest Grove, Oregon, California State University at Los Angeles and UCLA.  She earned a Bachelor of Arts in Speech Communication and is certified in Public Relations, Special Needs Advocacy and Paralegal Studies.

 

Ms. Bracy currently serves as member of the Interagency Coordinating Council on Early Intervention, a California state-wide group which advises on policy for the developmental disabled. Also, she is a member of the Autism Community Workgroup, a collaboration with the universities, regional centers and community organizations all dedicated to the research of autism and the underlying disparities of delivering services.

 

She has received Congressional Commendations from the city and county of Los Angeles for her work in the community.

 

Ms. Bracy lives with her husband, Charles, and her adult son, Brad. She has an adult daughter, Brittany, who is married and has two children.  When Florence is not writing, she enjoys reading, walking in charity fundraisers, cooking and spending time with her family.

Media

Voices from the Front Lines with Eric Mann

March 26, 2019

Los Angeles, CA

KPFK 90.7

Sunday Morning with

Elizabeth Espinoza

March 24, 2019

Los Angeles, CA

KFI AM 640

Good News Radio Magazine

Raising a Child With Autism

October 31, 2018

Los Angeles, CA

Charles R. Drew

University of Medicine and Science

with Serena Parker

April 2, 2018

Los Angeles, CA

Truth Told N Love

Events

Upcoming

Foster and Kinship Care Conference

April 2019, San Bernardino, CA

California Association for Education of Young Children

April 2019 | More Info

UCLA Autism Symposium

April 2019, Los Angeles, CA | More Info

Help Group Resource Fair

April 2019, Sherman Oaks, CA | More Info

HubCity Autism Network

April 2019, Compton CA | More Info

Born to Talk Radio Podcast

May 2019, Los Angeles, CA | More Info

COBA Conference

May 2019, Los Angeles, CA | More Info

NBC Universal Assistive Programs & Technology Fair

June 2019, Universal City, CA

National Foster Parent Association Conference

June 2019, Garden Grove, CA | More Info

Conferences

Autism Connectivity

Los Angeles, CA

Universities & Colleges

Loyola Marymount

Los Angeles, CA

UCLA

Los Angeles, CA

CSUDH

Carson, CA

CSULA

Los Angeles, CA

Churches

Holman United Methodist Church

Los Angeles, CA

Third Church for Spiritual Living

Los Angeles, CA

United Methodist Minister Caucus Group

Los Angeles, CA

Schools

Washington Prep PTA

Los Angeles, CA

Book Clubs

Elite Book Club

Los Angeles, CA

Sisters With Books

Los Angeles, CA

Support Groups

Autism Resource Mom

Santa Ana, CA

African American Support Group

Los Angeles, CA

Regional Centers

Westside Regional Center

Culver City, CA

South Central Los Angeles Regional Center

Los Angeles, CA

Eastern Los Angeles Family Regional Center

Alhambra, CA

Newspaper

The Wave Newspaper

More Info

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“Most parents are overwhelmed upon learning how to secure services and live with a child with autism,” Bracy said. “There are a lot of feelings and acceptance issues that come up.

This book provides strategies on how to cope through this process.

 

Endorsements

Ms. Bracy's story is one family's quest to seek moments of "normalcy" as members of the family learn to navigate the complex world of autism diagnosis, services and treatment. An easy read that should be required for special education teachers and teacher candidates, Help Me Understand My Child provides a personal account of the importance of professional language and conduct when interacting with families of children with autism and provides a glimpse into the different perspectives of family members who interact and advocate in a variety of different ways.

Jolan Smith, Ph.D.

Postdoctoral Fellow UCLA Center for Autism Research & Treatment Special Education

 

I have witnessed Ms. Bracy live out her advocacy for her son. She is a champion for all children. This book is a must read for all parents who desire to understand and be able to help their child.

Darin Early, Ed.D., Director of Family of Schools, Loyola Marymount 

 

An invaluable read for parents, educators and anyone trying to garner a better understanding of the often enigmatic world of special needs. Ms. Bracy has contributed to this category of education that’s often ignored or overlooked. There is a strong connection between mother and son evident in this book which is the driving force behind their heroic journey. This is a great book for the disenchanted parents seeking to find a “normal” path.  Thank you for shining a light where light needed to be shined.

 

Melinda Levy, Education Specialist

As an elementary school principal, with the Los Angeles Unified School District, I recommend this book to administrators and teachers. The book is a "quick read" for those who don't have much time. The author provides a true perspective of what parents of special needs children experience in their efforts to acquire much needed services. We should all "walk in their shoes."

Pamela Williams, Principal

Hi Florence,

I am reading your book (probably better tell you I am devouring it). We met at the Autism Symposium last Friday. You are changing my life. I also have lots of questions. I feel so blessed and lucky I found you in my scary and unknowing journey. I look forward to being in touch with you.

Lissa Gussoni, Parent of a seven year old with autism

Ms. Bracy's book is an honest and heartfelt journey of a mother's unconditional love and quest to giving her autistic son what every child deserves: a chance in life. Through her narrative, she helps caregivers of the special needs community, particularly recently diagnosed ones such as myself, navigate the unpredictable and overwhelming roads that lie ahead. 

Susan Ear, parent of a three year old with autism

 

The book gave me a wake up call about all the resources I have access to and legal rights my daughter is entitled to. I had no idea so many organizations are available to support my child. The book is worth the resources alone.

 

Simone Taylor, parent of a ten year old with autism

 

Ms. Bracy provided a clear and precise account of her son’s journey and her incredible diligence. I especially enjoyed the side notes at the end of each chapter. The book reiterates the importance of advocacy, treating your child as normal as possible and being organized with all paperwork pertaining to the child. I truly enjoyed reading this book. She did an incredible job at being honest about the entire process involved when dealing with a child on the spectrum.

 

Arnentta Erlington, parent of a three year old with autism

 

A MUST READ for professionals, caretakers, family and friends of persons with special needs, especially autism.

Debra Moody, MA

Language and Speech Pathologist

 

I am glad that my feelings of sadness, shock, guilt and dejection are not just my feelings. Ms. Bracy reveals her feelings of being a parent of a special needs child.

Liz Fontelera, parent of a 25 year old son with autism

This is an easy to read story with resources on how to get what you need for your child.

Ernie Troupe, a mother with an adult child with special needs.

All I can say is WOW! Your persistence and resilience is admired. Thank you for being a voice and an advocate not just for your son but for the autism community.

Suzanna Kazanchyan, Disabilities Manager

 

Support Group

We are warriors. Parents of special needs children are exponentially rated. We are there as parents, lawyers, doctors, advocates, psychologists, pharmacists, researchers, dietitians and friends for our children.  We have learned how to be courageous, persistent and patient in getting what our children need to be successful.

The support group's mission is to take care of the caregiver by providing a place to come and mentally lay down their swords amongst those of us who have been on the journey, getting ready to start the journey or in the midst of it. The support group is a safe space for parents to share their feelings and concerns. We share resources and strategies on raising our children and adult children. We have dads, moms, grandparents, aunts, uncles and caregivers who come to our meetings.

No matter what the diagnosis is, we will embrace you. Feel free to come and join us. Please sign up and join our email list below.

 

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